1. because of some words and deeds of men, women very angry very upset;
2. men began want to explain, and then think: need it to make a fuss of it? Is not that little bit of trivial it? The fire should not be so?
3. Women began to nag, trying to prove man's practice, before any differently now. She clearly told a man, not matter itself, but the attitude of a man, let her disillusioned and angry;
4. Men think: how they began to turn the old account. Also finished poured. Well simply vexatious. This, obviously I'm wrong, this is not the obvious thing? I admit I was not so. Untouchables,ugg sheepskin boots, I avoid them since. I flash!
5. Women think: how is such an irresponsible man, ah, oh my life was hard! It seems my mother was right, the world is not a man is a good thing. This time, he can not so cheap, otherwise, the earthshaking.
6. men and women are thinking: I'm wrong. Two people have forgotten why quarrel. Either fight, or the Cold War. Who wants to be served soft.
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said the character of men and women come from different planets (men from Mars, Women from Venus), so men and women are totally different way of thinking. Men and women process information and transmit information in different ways. Because they can not understand the meaning behind, often to speak the same language as, quarreling became inevitable thing.
Generally speaking, men pay attention to logic, concerned about the external world changes. Emphasis on perceptual and women, care about people self-evaluation.
men look tough, but the thinking is simple, is linear thinking, emotional unresponsiveness, face the concept of weight, like in front of outsiders to keep up appearances;
woman looks weak However, a mesh of thinking, sensitive. Imaginative, suspicious weight. Sometimes can not distinguish a dream or in reality, happy and crying conversion, is a wink thing.
Therefore, men can not understand the behavior of women in the fight:
likes to turn the old account, then the vicious words want to tell. Ladies how the past becomes a shrew blink of an eye?
the original, a woman's logic is as follows: She can only use extreme means to cause a man's attention. She would use the most decisive and most regret words to stand, she is in fact to remind man: I want it just a little tender. That you do not agree, I lose face. You quickly admit it, as long as you admit, and I'll forgive you.
while women can not understand the behavior of men in the fight, the woman is always wishful thinking to think:
Although I like to take you compare with others, is not Because I like you. Otherwise, how could I be with Hello! You must not love me.
Men's logic is: you say to others, then why are you with me? Since you do not trust me,moncler clothes, what else we need to talk about it. Now what are you call the shots, every time you in front of friends,Uggs New York, let me embarrassment. We are together, there What do you mean it?
men quarrel reasons:
\She regarded me as a child! \She did not trust my abilities, I am very uncomfortable! \in the roundworm, I guess. This makes me feel a lot of pressure. \At my request, he never looked down on. He always has a bunch of reasons to shirk their responsibilities. If he forgot to do something,UGG Bailey Button Triplet, I can understand him, but not like excuses for him,moncler kids, or think of me as nagging ghost! \feelings, do not support my idea. \like as if I never existed! \For example, he said to the woman: \Trying to get a woman to understand her depression, is completely influenced by others. From his face,Ugg Outlet, a woman can not see a trace of understanding, so that women can plausibly his insight into: Men do not care about her feelings. Men concerned, but as soon as possible off the hook.
Sometimes, a woman has become her bickering fuse
bad mood,moncler outlet, it is often not directly say it,Knitted Ugg Boots, but questioned the way like to use to remind men attention. For example,moncler winter, a man comes home late, she said, \He felt that his attack will instinctively resist. Therefore, men need a woman's approval, while a woman needs a man concerned about her feelings, understand this, will be less likely to quarrel a lot.
fight is the \Quarrel on the basic attitude is \The problem is when two people think, the fight for an endless stream of. In fact, family disputes, marital disputes and so often there is no fixed answer, they simply point, rather than right and wrong. \\
fight should be \the other logical flaws, while concentrating the attack, the other side no chance of the room. The question is \Disputes between husband and wife as \
there is a simple way to prevent some unnecessary fight. With the Chinese saying goes, it is: for one another.
In fact, the fact is also true: men and women often find that their colleagues and friends for more than a lot of forgiving love.
friends no matter how good, but also distance. And love better, is their own. Their own thing, do not want to do as. Did not I say you can not criticize you?
Therefore, love is often not as good as friends. Can not tolerate,leather uggs, can not tell their, can not forgive.
The plane is in any case unavoidable got.
fight, there are many different reasons, but the results are similar: to destroy the basis of feelings and undermine the basic trust between people. Occasional exchange ceremony is a quarrel,UGGS Outlet Nederland, but often can not be controlled, and it is disastrous.
appropriate silence or compromise, not weakness. But look around the heart in order to avoid loss of time sword. The joy and happiness to life, requires more skill and reason.
In fact, any time, you should remember that word: men need to respect a woman needs love.
Therefore,Sale Ugg Boots, the children, not noisy, try using the other's thinking to see the world!
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